Everyone wants to be happy but yet they find themselves aimlessly
looking for their happiness. Happiness is not attached to a specific person,
place or thing but lasting happiness is an everyday choice that has to be made in
spite of external circumstances. Every person has their own specific definition
of what happiness resembles for their life.
This year, I have started to search deeper into what makes
me happy. It is my goal to continue to do what makes me happy and subtract
myself from people, environments and things that drain my happiness. As we
constantly grow as human beings our idea of what make us happy will gradually
shift. I am no longer fearful of pursuing my life happiness. I realize that being
happy is an essential part of living a fulfilling life.
Once you identify a clearer picture of your life happy plan
then you can reevaluate where you are going right or wrong in the path to happy. I am a firm believer that everyone deserves to
live a life full of colorful possibilities. People who fear living a life true
to their happiness will always fall into a cycle of insanity.
Below are a few tips to help you unlock the door to your
happiness on your terms!
Tip #1: Define your life
happiness. Everyone has their own visual perception of what life they
desire to live. Make sure you visualize the life you desire and then take time
to define your life happiness. For example my life happiness consists of
freedom, working on my own terms, traveling and living in a place where I can grow
in my creative nature & prosper in all areas of my life.
Tip#2: Reevaluate
your environment: Your environment plays a major role in how your happiness
will be destructive or constructive. If your environment is draining your
happiness factor it may be time to relocate.
Tip#3: Reevaluate the
people: In your happiness journey you have to be willing to subtract people
who put strain or stress on your positive development. It is not meant to allow
everyone in your space. When you subtract relationships that are not conducive
to your growth it helps you move in the direction of happiness quicker.
Tip#4: Exist outside
your comfort zone: Nothing great can ever be developed in your comfort
zone. Be willing to take chances and risk to stretch yourself. You never know
what could make you happy if you are never willing to give it a try.
Tip 5# Take back your
key & open the door. Do not let anyone disturb your peace or steal your
joy. When you allow others indirect or direct behaviors influence your
happiness you subconsciously give them the key. Your life happiness should not
be contingent on what people do or do not do for you.
Be bold enough to take
back the key & unlock the door to your happiness!