Own Your Sexy!

You claim it, you possess it and you own it- tap into your sexy! ~Stylicia~

Confidence....Sexy is a mind set. ~Britanya Wynds~

We live in a society where sexiness is defined by outward appearance and the word "sex". The media displays sexiness in a degrading form through commercial ads, books, movies, music video etc. However, sexiness is none of the things depicted through the eyes of the media. Sexiness is a mystery that has been sought by many onlookers waiting to reveal its secret. Sexiness is like a rainbow it has a spectrum of colorful attributes to many people who dare to define it. Sexiness can be described as the characteristic or physical demeanor of a person's image, attitude and confidence. So often we as women try to do so many alterations to our outer appearance to display how sexy we are to attract the attention of men. But no matter what we wear, how we alter our physical attributes I believe that being sexy is an inner glow wrapped with confidence, happiness and joy. It is normal for a woman to want to be desired, wanted and most of all feel sexy. It is important we do not let the world define our sexiness. It is our job to define what our sexiness factor will be and own it and rip it like a runway model. We do not have to work hard to try to pretend to be sexy it is as simple as the way we smile, the way we talk, the way we wear our hair and much more.

Since I have evolved into my womanhood men have found the simplest things about me to be sexy. I would struggle in my 20's wondering how could I dress or look more desirable or sexy to a man. But now at the age of  30 something I realize I do not need to look a certain way to be sexy. It is something that I  automatically obtained as a woman. However, ladies do not lose this desirable element after you have kids, gain weight and get into daily role as a wife/mother. But ladies, it is imperative to never lose that fire that kindles that internal flame of sexy. It should be important for you to retrieve your sexiness whether if it through weight lose, eating right, changing your hairstyle, trying something fun and funky with your wardrobe.   Even if you are Christian woman like me it is not a sin for you to want to feel sexy, God created this innate caliber inside of us. You should strive to be desirable for yourself because when you look good you feel good.

However, sexiness is simplicity nothing over done or overtly distasteful. So, get ready to not only work your sexiness but it is time to own your sexiness, and bring it back with a vengeance.

You Confidence Will Breed Sexy!!!

Own Your Sexy!

You claim it, you possess it and you own it- tap into your sexy! ~Stylicia~

Confidence....Sexy is a mind set. ~Britanya Wynds~

We live in a society where sexiness is defined by outward appearance and the word "sex". The media displays sexiness in a degrading form through commercial ads, books, movies, music video etc. However, sexiness is none of the things depicted through the eyes of the media. Sexiness is a mystery that has been sought by many onlookers waiting to reveal its secret. Sexiness is like a rainbow it has a spectrum of colorful attributes to many people who dare to define it. Sexiness can be described as the characteristic or physical demeanor of a person's image, attitude and confidence. So often we as women try to do so many alterations to our outer appearance to display how sexy we are to attract the attention of men. But no matter what we wear, how we alter our physical attributes I believe that being sexy is an inner glow wrapped with confidence, happiness and joy. It is normal for a woman to want to be desired, wanted and most of all feel sexy. It is important we do not let the world define our sexiness. It is our job to define what our sexiness factor will be and own it and rip it like a runway model. We do not have to work hard to try to pretend to be sexy it is as simple as the way we smile, the way we talk, the way we wear our hair and much more.

Since I have evolved into my womanhood men have found the simplest things about me to be sexy. I would struggle in my 20's wondering how could I dress or look more desirable or sexy to a man. But now at the age of  30 something I realize I do not need to look a certain way to be sexy. It is something that I  automatically obtained as a woman. However, ladies do not lose this desirable element after you have kids, gain weight and get into daily role as a wife/mother. But ladies, it is imperative to never lose that fire that kindles that internal flame of sexy. It should be important for you to retrieve your sexiness whether if it through weight lose, eating right, changing your hairstyle, trying something fun and funky with your wardrobe.   Even if you are Christian woman like me it is not a sin for you to want to feel sexy, God created this innate caliber inside of us. You should strive to be desirable for yourself because when you look good you feel good.

However, sexiness is simplicity nothing over done or overtly distasteful. So, get ready to not only work your sexiness but it is time to own your sexiness, and bring it back with a vengeance.

You Confidence Will Breed Sexy!!!

I AM ENOUGH!

Many times in life we look for the approval of others by measuring our worth by their accolades, comments or bravados but their comes a time we have to tell ourselves...I AM ENOUGH!







     Recently, Whitney Elizabeth Houston was put to rest on Saturday, February 18th, 2012. Her homecoming ceremony was an impactful wake up call to the world. So many celebrities spoke of the Whitney the media did not know at all. The media glamorized her downfalls, flaws and mistakes to build a story for propaganda. Whitney Houston was beautiful, talented, smart, savvy, and sassy but still at the end of the day she questioned her worth. She still wondered was her gift,her God given talent good enough for the world. Million of women today have the same question run through their head.."Am I good enough?" Inspite of our accomplishments, successes, victories and overcoming moments many women still have a overwhelming insecurity of who they are inside. A woman's insecurity can mess with her self esteem, self worth, and self love which could cause her to lose faith in her ability to make a change in the world. So often we let society, the media, friends, and family dictate our worthiness. I believe Whitney Houston truly never tapped into her full potential or greatness because she did not realize her music changed lives. I have been guilty of feeling inadequate about my God given talented comparing myself to other people and wondering was I good enough to make it. However, I began to realize I was fearfully and wonderfully made by God and He never made a piece of junk. God's artwork is intricate and detailed where abstract pieces are added for embellishment. God is the greatest Picasso who divinely created every woman as a Mona Lisa. Ms. Houston was a beautiful Mona Lisa who had her own unique attributes that added to the body of Christ. It is true she died before her prime and still had so much life to live but her death was a reality check to love yourself. In her song "The Greatest Love Of All" it says "learning to love yourself is greatest love of all" and this statement is profound. It is important you learn to love yourself, embrace your flaws, your mistakes and realize that no matter what other people say about you, you are more than enough. God created us to add to His kingdom; many members of one body. We all have differrent skills and abilities but we are all important to the Body of Christ.

So the next time you wonder are you enough be reminded that God created you for a purpose and when you belong to him then your talent, skills and abilities are enough. So tell yourself, "I AM ENOUGH"!